China with children in 11 days: Beijing, Chengdu and Shanghai
China is better with children than most parents expect. The trains are quiet, comfortable and short. The cities are safe in a way that surprises people. The food is easy to make work if you know what to order. And Chinese attitudes to visiting children are warm to the point where you may need to war
- Duration
- 11 days
- Pace
- Relaxed
- Hotel changes
- 3
- Best months
- Apr, May, Sep, Oct
- From
- $2,365 per person
What does not work is the adult itinerary with a child attached. Six cities, four temples a day and a two-hour queue for a museum will break anyone. So this route uses three bases, three hotel changes and two rail legs, and it puts the pandas in the middle where the energy usually dips.
Eleven days, three hotel changes, one internal flight, two rail legs and four afternoons with nothing scheduled.
Who it suits: families with children roughly five to fifteen. Works well for two adults and two children in a connecting room or a suite.
Your specialist: Asaf Zamshtein, our Southeast Asia and China specialist, with Mai Est, our Head of Consulting.
A note on who is on the ground. Our own offices are in Japan, Vietnam, India and the Philippines. China is not one of them. We run China through partner teams in Beijing and Chengdu that we have worked with for years.
Day by day
Day 1: Arrive Beijing. Private transfer with car seats if you need them, which we arrange and which is not standard in China. Nothing scheduled. We book a hotel with a pool, because the first afternoon of a long-haul trip with children is a pool afternoon.
Day 2: Beijing, slowly. A late start. The Temple of Heaven park mid-morning rather than at dawn, which loses you the exercising crowds and gains you a lie-in. Kite sellers, open space and room to run.
Afternoon at the Beijing Zoo pandas, which are a warm-up for Chengdu, or the Science and Technology Museum, which is genuinely good and mostly bilingual.
Day 3: The Forbidden City and a rickshaw. The palace with a guide, in the morning, for two hours and no more. We give the guide a brief: the emperor’s daily routine, the dragons on the roofs, the story of the last emperor as a child living in these rooms. It works.
Afternoon in the hutongs by cycle rickshaw, with a stop at a courtyard house and a dumpling-folding session where the children make lunch.
Day 4: The Great Wall. Mutianyu, with the cable car up and the toboggan down, which is a real toboggan on a metal chute and is the single most popular thing on this itinerary with anyone under fifteen. Two to three hours on the wall itself at a child’s pace.
Back in the city by late afternoon. Evening free.
Day 5: Beijing to Chengdu. A three-hour flight, or the high-speed rail via Xi’an if you would rather stay on the ground. Afternoon settling in. Chengdu is flatter, greener and slower than Beijing and the change of gear is deliberate.
Day 6: Pandas. An early start, because pandas eat in the morning and sleep from about ten. We use Dujiangyan rather than the Chengdu city base when the numbers allow, because it is quieter and the enclosures are better, and it is about an hour and a quarter out.
Afternoon at the Dujiangyan irrigation system, which is a 2,000-year-old piece of engineering that still works and is more interesting to children than it sounds, or straight back for a swim.
Day 7: Chengdu, teahouses and shadow puppets. Morning in People’s Park: the teahouse, the ear cleaners, the bamboo chairs, the boats on the lake. A cooking class in the afternoon where everyone makes their own dumplings and a mild version of mapo tofu.
Evening at a Sichuan opera variety show with the face-changing act, which is short, loud and exactly right for children.
Day 8: Leshan, or a day off. The Giant Buddha at Leshan is 233 feet (71 m) tall, carved into a cliff at a river junction, and it is about an hour and a half each way with a boat to see it from the water. It is a good day and it is a long one.
The alternative is a slow Chengdu day: the Wuhou shrine, Jinli street, and an afternoon in the hotel. We ask you which family you are.
Day 9: Chengdu to Shanghai. Flight, about two and a half hours, or high-speed rail if you want the experience of it. Afternoon on the Bund and an evening river cruise, which children like more than adults expect.
Day 10: Shanghai. Morning at the Shanghai Natural History Museum or the Science and Technology Museum, both excellent. Afternoon in the Yu Garden and the old town bazaar, with the soup dumplings at Nanxiang.
Or the Shanghai Disney Resort as a full-day swap, which we will book and which we will also gently ask you about, since you have come a long way for a Chinese holiday.
Day 11: Departure. Late checkout where we can get it, and a transfer to Pudong.
What is included
Accommodation with breakfast throughout in family rooms, connecting rooms or suites, all internal flights and rail legs with reserved seats, private cars with English-speaking drivers and child seats where needed, licensed local guides on five days briefed for the ages of your children, the Great Wall cable car and toboggan, panda base entry with an early slot, the dumpling class in Beijing and the cooking class in Chengdu, the Sichuan opera, all entrance fees on guided days, a VPN and payment apps set up and tested before departure, and a WhatsApp group with your consultant and our partner teams for the whole trip, with WeChat alongside it as a local fallback.
What we would change, and when
- Children under five? We would shorten it to eight days and cut Chengdu, or wait a couple of years. Long-haul plus altitude-free but long transfer days is a lot for a toddler, and the pandas will still be there.
- Teenagers? Add Xi’an between Beijing and Chengdu, which is a four-and-a-half-hour train and a three-hour train, and the Terracotta Army lands well with anyone over about twelve.
- Summer dates? Beijing and Shanghai in July and August are hot, around 90F (32C), and humid. We start earlier, build in pool afternoons and put the middle of the day indoors. Chengdu is cooler but wetter.
- Fussy eaters? Sichuan food is not all chilli and we will brief the restaurants, but we also make sure every hotel we use has a reliable plain option. Nobody enjoys a hungry child at nine at night.
Honest notes
Chinese public toilets outside hotels and airports are frequently squat toilets and are not always supplied. Carry tissue and hand gel. This is the practical thing parents thank us for.
Crowds at the famous sites are the real fatigue factor, not the walking. We book the earliest slots we can get and we accept an early alarm in exchange for a calmer morning.
Get your payment app working before you fly. With children in tow you will be buying water, ice cream and metro tickets a dozen times a day, and doing that in cash in 2026 China is slower than it sounds.
Air quality in Beijing between November and March can be poor for stretches. With children we take that more seriously than we would with adults, and we will tell you honestly if your dates are the wrong ones and what we would do instead.
Built by Asaf Zamshtein, our Southeast Asia and China specialist, and checked with our partner teams in China before it goes out.
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